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		<title>Interested in Positive Changes? Have You Tried Hypnosis?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 21:44:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wil Dieck</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been a professional hypnotherapist practicing inSan Diego for nearly a decade. Now I’ve been practicing hypnotherapy for a lot longer than that, in fact when I owned and operated my martial arts schools I helped the students who trained with me excel using visualization techniques I’d learned from hypnosis. I started learning about [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" title="Blurred" src="http://totalmindtherapy.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Blurred-Walkers_-iStock_000003349303XSmall.jpg" alt="" width="425" height="282" />I have been a professional hypnotherapist practicing inSan Diego for nearly a decade. Now I’ve been practicing hypnotherapy for a lot longer than that, in fact when I owned and operated my martial arts schools I helped the students who trained with me excel using visualization techniques I’d learned from hypnosis.</p>
<p>I started learning about hypnosis when I was studying Psychology at the University of San Diego back in the early 80’s. Since then I’ve come to understand that hypnosis is one of the most effective catalysts for positive changes anyone can use.</p>
<p><strong>The Positive Changes You Can Expect<span id="more-870"></span></strong></p>
<p>Some of the positive changes you can experience using hypnosis involve changing habits. For example, you can, like many people, use hypnotherapy to help you lose weight permanently. In fact, hypnotherapy has been shown to be one of the most beneficial methods for reinforcing new exercise and dieting habits that need to be created for weight loss.</p>
<p>Millions of people have quit smoking using hypnosis. Over the past half dozen years or so I have helped hundreds of people quit smoking using hypnosis here in my office in San Diego. While it doesn&#8217;t work for everyone it is a very powerful way of helping smokers quit. Scientific studies have shown hypnosis to be one of the best ways to quit smoking.</p>
<p>If you bite your fingernails or drink too much alcohol hypnosis can be a great way to help you replace your old, non empowering habits with new, more empowering ones. You can also use it for emotional healing as a result of loss from a death or divorce or becoming more confident in meeting more of the type of people you are attracted to.</p>
<p>What I&#8217;ve found is that hypnosis can be used for hundreds of positive inner changes, nearly anything you can imagine. Hypnosis is a very powerful tool for helping you move from where you are to where you would like to be. Sooner or later almost everyone who is looking to make positive significant shifts and changes in their lives explores using hypnosis to some degree or another.</p>
<p><strong>How to Get Started With Hypnotherapy</strong></p>
<p>I don’t know about other hypnotists but I almost never see anyone without talking with them first. The reason is that I want to make sure that they are a good match for my system. This means almost everyone makes a complimentary phone appointment with me first. During their complimentary consultation, they often ask end by asking, “How do I start? Then they ask “How much does it cost?”</p>
<p>The answer to how do I start is easy, you merely make an appointment. The answer to how much does it cost depends on what you want to work on. If you live near or around San Diego call me at (800) 989-6570 to set up your complimentary, risk free session.</p>
<p>If I think you are a good match for what I do then we can schedule a session to help you on your journey. If I don’t think we are a match I know many local hypnotists and will gladly lead you toward one that might be more suitable for your particular issue or personality.</p>
<p><strong>How Do I find a Hypnotherapist if I’m Not in San Diego?</strong></p>
<p>People who are looking for a hypnotherapist but do not live in San Diegooften ask, “How do I find a good hypnotist?”</p>
<p>First, although I believe that one-on-one in-person sessions are the most powerful way to make a shift, you don’t have to be in the same room to have it work for you. I often have sessions with clients over the phone.</p>
<p>If you don’t live here and would like to experience one-on-one in-person sessions you can start by looking for practitioners in local spiritual directories. You might try checking out massage schools in your area. They often have a program for hypnosis or know of people who practice. If you do not find any leads there, I would suggest turning to the Internet.</p>
<p><strong>How to Hypnotize Yourself</strong></p>
<p>Another question I often receive is “How about self hypnosis recordings, are they effective?” My answer is if you want to learn how to hypnotize yourself self hypnosis recordings can be very helpful.</p>
<p>So how does self-hypnosis work? It really works in the same manner as using hypnotherapy you just do it yourself rather than using a hypnotist. Although there are many great books on self hypnosis I’ll give you some basics here.</p>
<p><strong>Self Hypnosis Made Easy</strong></p>
<p>First, relax and quiet your mind. One method I often recommend is using progressive relaxation techniques. This is when you relax one part of your body at a time. Once your body is relaxed you need to relax your mind. You can do this by counting down from 50 to zero while taking a breath or while thinking about what it is you want to change. It is when your mind is relaxed that your own hypnotic suggestion can travel through.</p>
<p>Before you go through the relaxation stage you need to pick a positive suggestion that is simple and gives you the changes you are looking for. Although hypnosis is powerful, vague statements are not so telling yourself, &#8220;I am now rich&#8221; won’t work because it is too broad and may be too difficult for you to accept at first. Using the suggestion, &#8220;I am increasing my income monthly by $1,000&#8243; is more specific and may make more sense and meet with less resistance.</p>
<p>Repeat your suggestion quietly to yourself, over and over. Make the suggestion in the present tense, not the past or future. You cannot make anything happen at any other time.</p>
<p><strong>Positive Changes Are Within Your Reach</strong></p>
<p>Hypnosis is a very powerful tool to help you make significant shifts in your thinking. This can help you transform your future and your life. If you are interested in these types of shifts then why not give hypnotherapy a try? It has worked for hundreds of people just like you and it can work for you too.</p>
<p>If you are interested in learning more about how hypnosis and NLP can help you make these shifts, or are just interested in how your subconscious mind works then download the complimentary report <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">“Discover the Secrets of Your Subconscious Mind”</a>. <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">Click here to download your complimentary report. </a></p>
<p>Wil Dieck is the founder of <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">Total Mind Therapy</a>, a transformation method that uses hypnosis and NLP to help you make the changes you desire. If you are interested in making positive changes of some sort then call (619) 293-3255 for a risk free, complimentary evaluative consultation. It costs you nothing and can help you make the changes you desire, quickly and easily.</p>
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		<title>Hypnotherapy what is it and how does it work?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 00:47:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wil Dieck</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hypnotherapy what is it, where does it come from? How does hypnosis work? These are some of the questions I asked when I first started learning about hypnosis as I was studying psychology at  University of San  Diego. I had heard that hypnotherapy was an excellent method of making positive changes, quick and significant shifts in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" title="pharaohypnotic" src="http://totalmindtherapy.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Egypt_iStock_000002845158XSmall.jpg" alt="" width="428" height="280" />Hypnotherapy what is it, where does it come from? How does hypnosis work? These are some of the questions I asked when I first started learning about hypnosis as I was studying psychology at  University of San  Diego. I had heard that hypnotherapy was an excellent method of making positive changes, quick and significant shifts in thinking that were long-lasting. I had hear that a classmate of mine was a hypnotist and asked if she would work with me. Being a professional hypnotist she agreed. Not only that, she recommended books to me about hypnosis that started me on my path to become a professional hypnotist.</p>
<p><strong>What is Hypnotherapy?</strong></p>
<p>Hypnotherapy is actually the use of hypnosis in a clinical setting. The word “hypnos” comes from the ancient Greek Hypnos who was the god of sleep. But hypnosis isn&#8217;t a form of sleep. It&#8217;s actually a mental state where you can easily absorb new ideas into your subconscious mind.<span id="more-865"></span></p>
<p>I have read definitions of hypnosis that defines hypnosis as &#8220;a condition of artificially induced sleep.&#8221; But this isn&#8217;t true because when a person is asleep they are oblivious to everything that&#8217;s going around them. For example, if you spoke to someone quietly while they were asleep the chances are they would not hear you nor would they remember anything you said. Hypnosis just isn&#8217;t like that. While in hypnosis you are aware and can hear everything that&#8217;s going around you. Hypnosis actually invokes the state of mind where you are highly focused but open to new ideas.</p>
<p><strong>Levels of Hypnosis</strong></p>
<p>There are varying degrees of hypnosis. Becoming engrossed in a good book or movie is a type of natural hypnosis. You tend to tune out everything and become mesmerized by the story.</p>
<p>Hypnosis works so well in tuning out external stimuli that it’s now an accepted method of anesthesia in some types of surgeries, blocking out the pain.</p>
<p><strong>Science and Hypnosis</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong>The use of hypnotherapy has been studied in the Western world for over 200 years. Sigmund Freud actually used hypnosis in the early part of his career. He advanced the theory that hypnosis gives accesses to a less sophisticated part of the mind, what we now call the subconscious mind.</p>
<p>Innovations in science have been instrumental in helping us determine what happens in our brains during hypnosis.</p>
<p>Your brain puts out different electrical signals for different mental states, whether it’s agitated, alert, in varying stages of relaxation, or asleep. Research in the U.S. in the 1970s sought to measure the electrical changes that occur in the brain during the hypnotic state. It was found that hypnosis did alter the brain wave patterns and also the chemistry of the nervous system. This research allowed the researchers to determine which areas of the brain control which functions and determine which parts of the brain became more active while in a hypnotic state.</p>
<p>Research carried out in the former Soviet Union also established a link between the state of hypnosis and changes in a person’s physical and psychological state. They also used electronic equipment to measure the brain’s electrical waves and through this research concluded that hypnosis was a different &#8220;state&#8221; then sleep.</p>
<p>Recent scientific investigation has shown definite physiological changes take place while a person is in a hypnotic state. While in hypnosis the parasympathetic nervous system is switched on which slows breathing, heartbeat and causes the muscles of the body to become very relaxed. It’s in this relaxed state that hypnotherapy becomes useful.</p>
<p>These tests corroborate with scientific methods that during hypnosis we can virtually bypass the limiting beliefs of our conscious mind to relay our desired ideas and behaviors directly to our subconscious.</p>
<p>Once our subconscious accepts these new ideas, it can then direct our thoughts and actions to conform to the new data, attitudes, or beliefs.</p>
<p><strong>Measuring Brain Waves</strong></p>
<p>What is this electrical activity we’re talking about? It is the electrical impulses, measured in cycles that your brain puts out as it does the tasks you ask of it. For example, as you use your conscious mind the electrical waves your brain puts out are somewhere in the range of 15-40 cycles per second.  This range is known as your normal waking state. You experience this when you are reading, writing, speaking, calculating, using a computer or phone, analyzing, editing or planning. This is the state you are in most or all of your waking day.</p>
<p>When you are in what are known as trance states you are using your sub-conscious mind. This is when your brain wave pattern is in the range of 4-14 cycles per second. Trance states occur naturally as you begin to fall asleep or wake up. They occur when you are intensely focused or when you are distracted or daydreaming. Trace states also occur when you are lost in music, a good book, meditating or practicing martial arts or yoga.</p>
<p>A hypnotic state also occurs in the 4-14 cycles per second range. It merely uses this natural pleasant state of sub-conscious activity to cause positive changes in your habitual thinking that help you make quick and lasting behavioral shifts.</p>
<p><strong>How Does Hypnotherapy Work?</strong></p>
<p>Over your life you have learned certain beliefs and behaviors. These behaviors are also known as habits. While habits like brushing your teeth are good for you and the people you talk with regularly, habits like picking your nose may not be as well received. The key point here is these habits, like much of your behavior, is learned, and if one behavior can be learned another can be learned to replace it. That’s where hypnosis comes in. Hypnosis helps you learn new empowering behaviors. That’s the secret. Hypnosis helps you learn new and empowering behavior. It helps you program your mind for success.</p>
<p>In a hypnotherapy session the hypnotist helps you relax your mind and body. The reason for this is in this state the limiting beliefs of your conscious mind are subdued. At the same time the imagination and creativity of your subconscious mind are enhanced. You tune out all distractions and focus sharply on the thoughts and ideas you are working on. This process allows your subconscious mind to be highly accepting of new, positive ideas. This can help you experience change in your thinking that can causes quick and lasting shifts in your behavior.</p>
<p>If you would like more information on hypnosis or on your subconscious mind you can receive a complimentary 29 page report titled <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">“Discover the Secrets of Your Subconscious Mind”</a> at absolutely no charge. <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">Just click here to download your copy of “Discover the Secrets of Your Subconscious Mind” today.</a></p>
<p>Wil Dieck is the founder of Total Mind Therapy. He is a NLP practitioner and professional hypnotist. His office is located in San Diego,California. He is a leading authority on using hypnosis and NLP to help people make quick and lasting life transformations. If you interested in learning more about Total Mind Therapy or would like a risk free evaluation to determine how Total Mind Therapy could benefit you, call (619) 293-3255.</p>
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		<title>The Truth About Hypnotism and Hypnosis</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 16:01:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wil Dieck</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the movies it can be the scene where the weird-looking man holding a pocket watch determinedly swings it in front of a vulnerable, lost-looking young woman. He slowly and deeply repeatedly utters the phrase, “You are getting sleepy… You’re getting sleepy…” as the girl stares blankly at the clock. You can see the world [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" title="magic hypnotist" src="http://wildieck.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/hypnotist_iStock_000008574305XSmall.jpg" alt="" width="425" height="282" />In the movies it can be the scene where the weird-looking man holding a pocket watch determinedly swings it in front of a vulnerable, lost-looking young woman. He slowly and deeply repeatedly utters the phrase, “You are getting sleepy… You’re getting sleepy…” as the girl stares blankly at the clock. You can see the world spinning around her, circling and spiraling. After a while she begins to act like a zombie, or sleepwalker. She has been hypnotized.</p>
<p>This is how most people experience hypnosis, they see a show or watch a movie that makes it appear as if the hypnotist is taking control and making a person do things they don’t want to do. If you’re like most people, what you’ve heard about hypnosis is actually based on myths, fantasy, and fiction. Thanks to our popular culture, hypnotism has achieved an eerie, mystical, otherworldly and sometimes evil reputation.<span id="more-861"></span></p>
<p>While there may be a shred of truth to the scenario above, because hypnosis does use verbal suggestions to help people believe and therefore act as a differently, it certainly can’t do what the movies depict or we would have people lined up for miles to learn the secrets of hypnosis and “take over the world”. There is certainly more about hypnotism than those campy films.</p>
<p>The usefulness of hypnotism, or what we commonly call hypnosis, continues to be studied, analyzed, and interpreted. From medicine, psychology, new age, self-help, religion, history, media and popular culture, hypnotism has been given many different interpretations along with uses. From the ability of a smoker to quit smoking with hypnotherapy to helping people lose weight, reduce stress or just hit a golf ball straighter, hypnosis has been adapted by people across the spectrum to transform their lives.</p>
<p>But what about all those hypnosis myths, are they real? Well let’s take a look at 4 of the most popular ones.</p>
<p><strong>1. Hypnosis is magic &#8211; False</strong></p>
<p>If you are looking for a hypnotist to help you change like Harry Potter, touching you on the head with a magic wand then you’re going to be very disappointed. Simply put hypnosis is not magic. There is no type of hypnotism that involves the use of any type of magic or spells. It works naturally with the way your body and your brain already operate.</p>
<p><strong>2. Hypnosis puts you to sleep – False</strong></p>
<p>This myth comes about because hypnosis comes from the Greek term “hypnos” or to sleep. But you do not go into a sleep state when you are hypnotized. The truth about hypnotism is when you are hypnotized you’re fully awake and conscious. Yes, your brain is in a very relaxed state, but, rather than being asleep, you’re actually extremely focused.</p>
<p><strong>3. You can be hypnotize against your will &#8211; False</strong></p>
<p>The truth about hypnotism is you have to want to be hypnotized or you will not be. Another fact about hypnotism is the only way you can be hypnotized is if you believe you can be. You must actively participate in a hypnosis session to make it happen. You do this by entering into a fully relaxed state.</p>
<p><strong>4. The hypnotist can control you when they hypnotize you &#8211; False</strong></p>
<p>Many people fear hypnosis because they think the hypnotist is going to control them. Although this is a very common misconception about hypnosis nothing could be further from the truth. The truth about hypnotism is that, although the effect of your limiting beliefs in your conscious mind is minimized, you’re still very much in control.</p>
<p>No one can make you do anything that you’re morally or ethically opposed to. For example, if a hypnotist tells you to rob a bank, you won’t do this if you believe that stealing is wrong. In fact, such a suggestion will bring you out of your hypnotic state.</p>
<p>What about the clucking chicken antics? In a hypnotic trance, some people will do such silly things because the learned inhibitions of their conscious mind relax enough to allow the creative forces of their subconscious to dominate.</p>
<p>Normally, the only things that keep you from acting like that are your learned social conventions, such as, “You look stupid when you do stuff like that.” This is a limiting belief that resides in your conscious mind.</p>
<p>Think about it this way. When you were a small child, you weren’t embarrassed to be creative and pretend you were all sorts of things. In fact, it was often encouraged. But as you got older, you learned that it’s not such a good idea for adults to behave that way simply because of what others might think.</p>
<p>So when you’re hypnotized, suggestions for doing things that simply make you look silly might work with you. On the other hand, if you’re diametrically opposed to it, such a suggestion might just bring you out of your trance instead.</p>
<p><strong>There is nothing about hypnotism to be afraid of</strong></p>
<p>These answers are the truth about hypnosis. Hypnosis isn’t magic. It doesn’t put you to sleep and you can not be hypnotized against your will. Finally, a hypnotist cannot make you do even one thing you really don’t want to do. So if you have wanted to try hypnosis, but were a little afraid because of one of these myths, go ahead and give it a try. The truth about hypnosis is that it has helped millions of people transform their lives. It can do the same for you.</p>
<p>If you are interested in learning more about hypnosis and the power of your subconscious mind then download the complimentary report, <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">“Discover the Secrets of Your Subconscious Mind”</a> at absolutely no charge. <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">Just click here to download your copy of “Discover the Secrets of Your Subconscious Mind” today.</a></p>
<p>Wil Dieck is the founder and the leading authority on the use of Total Mind Therapy in helping people rewire their minds for success. If you are interested in learning more about hypnotism, NLP or Total Mind Therapy give Wil a call at (619) 293-3255 today.</p>
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		<title>Transform Your Life by Banishing Negative Self Talk</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 22:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wil Dieck</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;The more man meditates upon good thoughts the better will be his world and the world at large.&#8221;  &#8211; Confucius Confucius hit the nail on the head. If you continually think positive thoughts your world gets better. On the other hand if you are constantly thinking negative thoughts your life gets worse. This is because [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><img class="alignleft" title="talk" src="http://wildieck.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/secret_iStock_000014461014Small-1.jpg" alt="" width="782" height="614" />&#8220;The more man meditates upon good thoughts the better will be his world and the world at large.&#8221;  &#8211; </em><strong>Confucius</strong><em></em></p>
<p>Confucius hit the nail on the head. If you continually think positive thoughts your world gets better. On the other hand if you are constantly thinking negative thoughts your life gets worse. This is because your thinking controls your focus. So instead of developing the world of your dreams, a negative focus actually attracts the things you don’t want into your life.</p>
<p>There are a number of different methods to help you change your focus. By drawing on techniques used in hypnosis and NLP, you can transform your thinking and your life. Instead of merely getting by, you&#8217;ll find that your life can truly be exceptional. By using positive thinking, you will teach your mind to focus on positive solutions rather than your challenges.</p>
<p><strong>The problem with negative self talk and thinking<span id="more-854"></span> </strong></p>
<p>Negative self talk and thinking usually manifests themselves as worrying. Most people think that worrying is natural and somehow a good thing. In fact, if you are like most people you probably think that worrying about your situation helps in some way or another. You might think that since what you are worried about is on your mind you should be able to come up with a solution. The problem is that worrying doesn’t help you think clearly at all. In fact, it actually causes you to become more stressed and anxious and your mind to shut down.</p>
<p><strong>How to develop positive thinking and self talk </strong></p>
<p>One of the easiest methods of developing a positive outlook on life is to replace negative thinking with positive thinking. You can do this by changing your self talk, what you say to yourself on a regular basis. If you use the following strategy for a minimum of 3 weeks you’ll change the way you look at life.</p>
<p><em>1. Keep track of your thoughts</em></p>
<p>As you go through your day keep track of any negative self talk or thinking that pops into your head. As soon as you recognize any negative thoughts stop and immediately go to step 2.</p>
<p><em>2. Cancel your negative thinking</em></p>
<p>Once you recognize negative thinking or self talk cut it off in the moment by saying “cancel, cancel” out loud to yourself. You can reinforce this by adding some kind of physical movement such as rubbing your hands together as if you were wiping something off them, representing wiping your brain clear of those negative thoughts.</p>
<p><em>3. Decide to focus on solutions. </em></p>
<p>Once you’ve gone through step 2 think about possible solutions.  When you&#8217;re faced with a negative thought (and, if you are like most people there will be many of them), the best response is to think to yourself, &#8220;How can I solve or improve this challenge?&#8221; The point is to immediately begin focusing on solutions. Why? Because you get answers to the questions you ask. When you ask a good question, you receive good answers. After doing this for a few weeks you will find you have taught your mind to think of solutions to your challenges instead of focusing on them.</p>
<p><strong>Develop habits that empower you</strong></p>
<p>Developing habits is a matter of practice. The problem is that once you develop a habit, positive or negative, it occurs automatically, without any thinking at all. In NLP and hypnosis we recognize this and that’s why we work on helping clients develop positive habits they choose rather than some of the negative habits they’ll fallen in to.</p>
<p>Most experts tell us that a habit will take a minimum of 21 days to develop. Since this is the case, if you want to develop new, positive habits you need to make a conscious commitment to change your thinking and self talk for that period of time. Don’t worry if you find yourself struggling to stay positive at first.  It&#8217;s common to have numerous slips as you change your thinking and self talk habits. Refrain from beating yourself up over it. Remember, you&#8217;re focusing on solutions.</p>
<p>If you continue the process after the 21 days are completed, you’ll develop a permanent habit that will only require a minimal amount of maintenance on your part.</p>
<p><strong>How to turn negative thoughts into positive thinking and self talk</strong></p>
<p>As mentioned before, the questions you ask yourself will direct your thinking. If, for example, you constantly ask yourself, “Why do I always make that same mistake?” your mind will come up with all types of reasons you make that same mistake. On the other hand if you ask yourself, “What did I learn from this?” your mind will start to come up with things you’ve learned, things you can use to avoid the next time a similar event happens.</p>
<p><strong>Questions to change your thinking</strong></p>
<p>The following are some specific questions you can use to change a negative perception into something positive and can help you to start thinking positively on a consistent basis:</p>
<p>• What did I learn from ______? (whatever the learning experience is)</p>
<p>• What is great about this?</p>
<p>• What do I like the most about this?</p>
<p>• Who could I ask to help me with this?</p>
<p>Here are some questions you can ask yourself to keep your mind focused on the positive things in your life:</p>
<p>• What am I happy about right now in my life?</p>
<p><strong>Note:</strong> I understand that you might say “I don’t have anything to be happy about”. When I ask a client this question in a hypnosis and NLP session and they tell me “I don’t have anything to be happy about” I’ll ask, “If you did have something to be happy about what might it be?’” You can use the same technique, asking yourself, “What might I be _____ of with all of these questions.</p>
<p>• What am grateful for in my life right now?</p>
<p>• What am I most proud of right now in my life?</p>
<p>• What am I most looking forward to in my life?</p>
<p>By asking these questions you are filling your mind with positive thoughts. This doesn’t allow any room for the negative stuff. Since you can only consciously think about one thing at a time, making the most out of the thoughts you allow in your mind only makes sense.</p>
<p><strong>Your 1 month challenge </strong></p>
<p>Although this system seems easy you’ll probably be surprised by how difficult it can be to give up negatively and develop consistent positive thinking and self talk. The change can only come through a committed effort.</p>
<p><strong>James Allen</strong> once said, <em>“He who would be useful, strong, and happy must cease to be a passive receptacle for the negative, beggarly, and impure streams of thought; and as a wise householder commands his servants and invites his guests, so must he learn to command his desires and to say, with authority, what thoughts he shall admit into the mansion of his soul.”</em></p>
<p>If you really give this system a try it can change your life. Try it for 1 month. Work at it every day. I believe you&#8217;ll be so amazed at the results that you&#8217;ll never want to go back to the old way of worrying and dwelling on the challenges in your life again. Use these simple strategies to develop positive thinking and self talk. You can start making your life more positive today.</p>
<p>Are you interested in knowing more about the secrets of how you can re-program your subconscious mind using process like affirmations, meditation, hypnosis and even NLP? If you are, you can receive a 29 page report <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">“Discover the Secrets of Your Subconscious Mind”</a> at absolutely no charge. <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">Just click here to download your copy of “Discover the Secrets of Your Subconscious Mind” today.</a></p>
<p>Wil Dieck is the founder of Total Mind Therapy<sup>©</sup>, a system you can use to rewire your subconscious mind and create the future you desire. He is a is a leading authority on using NLP and hypnosis, as well as other natural processes, in making quick and lasting life transformations. You can reach Wil at (619) 293-3255.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Randomized controlled trials have provided good evidence that both hypnosis and relaxation techniques can reduce anxiety, and prevent panic disorders and insomnia.” &#8211; British Medical Journal, 1999 Are your bad habits becoming increasingly irksome? Wouldn’t you love to erase the mental blocks that are keeping you from achieving the success you desire? You can. How? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><img class="alignleft" title="calm and confident" src="http://wildieck.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/calm-and-confident-woman-iStock_000016072830Small.jpg" alt="" width="849" height="565" />“Randomized controlled trials have provided good evidence that both hypnosis and relaxation techniques can reduce anxiety, and prevent panic disorders and insomnia.”</em> &#8211; <strong>British Medical Journal, 1999</strong></p>
<p>Are your bad habits becoming increasingly irksome? Wouldn’t you love to erase the mental blocks that are keeping you from achieving the success you desire?</p>
<p>You can. How? You can use hypnosis to rewire your subconscious thinking.</p>
<p>Hypnosis works because it allows you to tap into the part of the mind that controls 90% of your beliefs, attitudes, thoughts, and actions – your subconscious mind!</p>
<p><strong>What is Hypnosis Used For?</strong></p>
<p>Hypnosis has been around probably since the beginning of time in some manner or another. While most people experience hypnosis at a show as entertainment, people who have experienced hypnosis techniques in a clinical setting will tell you that the experience can be very beneficial. It gives them a more positive mental outlook about how they can manage the events and issues in their lives. It is this new attitude about their events and issues that create new ways of behaving.<span id="more-800"></span></p>
<p><strong>Behaviors and Your Subconscious Mind</strong></p>
<p>The behaviors you go through on a regular basis are called habits. Habits are neither good nor bad, they just are. From the number of times a day you brush your teeth to whether you smoke or drink excessively or overeat, the patterns, or habits, you have created, control your life.</p>
<p>You see, your habits are located in what psychologists call the subconscious mind. It’s called the subconscious mind because it runs underneath your conscious thinking.</p>
<p><strong>What Is The Subconscious Mind?</strong></p>
<p><em>“Our subconscious minds have no sense of humor, play no jokes and cannot tell the difference between reality and an imagined thought or image. What we continually think about eventually will manifest in our lives.”</em> &#8211; <strong>Robert Collier</strong></p>
<p>The “subconscious” is the part of your mind that operates below your normal level of waking consciousness. If you could look at your mind it would appear to be similar to an iceberg. The conscious mind is like the part of the iceberg, about 12 percent, that you can see above the surface. But the bulk of the mind, about 88 percent, is the subconscious mind and is below the surface where you can&#8217;t see it.</p>
<p>For example, take breathing. It’s something you don’t even think about, well at least not until I mentioned it. When you breathe, you don’t consciously direct every muscle that expands or contracts your lungs to pull in and push out the air. You just breathe.</p>
<p>How about walking? Do you consciously think about how walk? Of course not! When you walk, just let your feet guide you to your destination. You don’t consciously tell your muscles to pick up each foot and put it back down for every step. It would be too much work for your conscious mind. It’s your subconscious mind that handles all of that for you.</p>
<p><strong>Habits and Your Subconscious Mind</strong></p>
<p>Your subconscious mind is like an autopilot. It’s been set either biologically, or from years and years of training. Like you saw in the examples above, it runs nearly everything in your life, things you not even consciously aware of.</p>
<p>Your subconscious mind contains vast stores of information. These are stores of information that you’ve been acquiring your entire life. They are much more than your conscious mind could ever handle.</p>
<p>Your subconscious mind takes action based on that information. It even causes conscious thoughts and physical sensations based on that same data. Some of the actions it takes, like working hard or exercising, are empowering while others, life being shy or smoking cigarettes, are not.</p>
<p><strong>Changing Your Habitual Thinking</strong></p>
<p>As an adult you might think you can simply change your habitual thinking. But it’s not that easy. The reason is one of the most fundamental ways you give your experience meaning is through your beliefs. Your beliefs have been stored in your subconscious mind and act to reinforce your motivation to work hard and accomplish the goals you set for yourself or to sabotage you if it has been trained to think you are unable.</p>
<p>These beliefs are stored deep in your subconscious and affect how you habitually think and can also automatically block any attempt you make to change. The only time you actually become aware of this negative subliminal programming is when it limits your progress in creating a balanced, successful and productive life.</p>
<p><strong>How Hypnosis Works</strong></p>
<p>In order to communicate effectively with your subconscious mind you need to get it into a relaxed state. Hypnosis techniques have been used for this purpose for thousands of years. It allows you to bypass your conscious mind and talk directly with your subconscious.</p>
<p><strong>What Would You Like to Change?</strong></p>
<p>So what is it you’d like to change? From the nasty habit of cigarette smoking to nervous habit of fingernail biting, hypnosis has been found as one of fastest ways to achieve that change. If there are things about you that you’d like to change, why not give hypnosis a try?</p>
<p>Are you interested in knowing more about the secrets of how you can re-program your subconscious mind using process like affirmations, meditation, hypnosis and even NLP? If you are, you can receive a 29 page report <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">“Discover the Secrets of Your Subconscious Mind”</a> at absolutely no charge. <a href="http://totalmindtherapy.net/" target="_blank">Just click here to download your copy of “Discover the Secrets of Your Subconscious Mind” today.</a></p>
<p>Wil Dieck is the founder of Total Mind Therapy<sup>©</sup>, a system you can use to rewire your subconscious mind and create the future you desire. He is a is a leading authority on using NLP and hypnosis, as well as other natural processes, in making quick and lasting life transformations. You can reach Wil at (619) 293-3255.</p>
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